Harmless diplomacy

At first stroke, diplomacy symbolizes the seriousness,,,,,

The seriousness related to politics regarding some foreign affairs or may be India‘s permanent membership at UN…  

Oh, please……. These are certainly not of my concern!!!

I am interested in my context of diplomacy, which I believe should be HARMLESS.  Yes, I am raising the topic of SOCIAL BEHAVIOUR, i.e. how should I respond to society & its people.

                            I really tend to be diplomat at times, this really works … and it should not exhibit anymore negativity, because here I am not demanding anything wrong from/for anybody. This is quite a very simple issue, if somebody is saying something to you JUST NOD YOUR HEAD IN ACCEPTANCE...  It is moreover like  :- Jo tumko ho pasand,wahi bat karenge tum din ko agar raat kaho raat kahenge  

Be it personal or professional relations, one should try to maintain the equilibrium , if your boss is giving some free suggestions or your mother-in-law is imposing her all time principles upon you, just hold your nerves and relax yourself ( I am not suggesting you to stay besides the wall, make faces and then plan conspiracy regarding the concerned persons….:-)

In our daily life we meet different personalities, some of whom we adore, some we hate and certainly there are few neutral ones, too. I mean to say they all are not as, we want them to be.. they are like themselves.. Except those who are adorable to me and the true dear ones,  I would prefer to be diplomat in any other case… I listen to everyone but my decisions are hardly influenced by any sort of suggestions from someone in my second and third category, i.e. I make my things on my own behalf… Even I tend to retain w/me, if something wrong or ill has been said to me regarding the third person instead of any instructions by my side, I never circulate anything like this. Certainly I cannot stop the concerned person but what I can contribute is to finish the matter at my end.. There is no point in exaggeration of anything like this….

Well… there are many a people in my daily-list, with whom I become artificially good ,and this might be building some negative outline for my character , but I do not find any harm because I cannot be good to everyone I meet but if my approach is neutral and impartial , I may not be benefitting but at least I am harmless  ;this is the point which I wish to raise..

Be harmless diplomatic, because this is what this society demands from you... I do not know what you will think of me after reading this but I truly believe in the saying-  

 

कबीरा खड़ा बाजार में सबकी माँगे खैर 

ना काहू से दोस्ती ना काहू से बैर ....