kyuki har ek friend zaruri hota h....

1^st Sunday of August , implies “ friendship’s day ”, or to be more precise the entire week is friendship week i.e. the celebration of friendship; If I talk of friends, I have been fortunate enough to have not myriad in number,but genuine and true to me…. Since today is dedicated to best buddies ,I would like to share few in my anmol khajana.. hehehehehehe

My family  is  an obvious opener,be it my parents or my siblings

My first bonding started with the date when I was to appear in this world and from someone  who took intense pain to produce me, I am blessed with world’s best mum; well not much to say I share every variety of bonding w/her-  physical, mental, moral, spiritual ,in the nutshell ETERNAL; she is infact the first person to elaborate the meaning of friendship, ( obviously, she means it first) everytime has a close eye upon my company and keeps on telling me how should I choose and maintain ma’frnz…..

My dad also shares a friendly bonding w/three of us and stays cool at even any of the vigorous moments. His speciality like this keeps him at the top in my little world....As a kid,I remember my mom used to scare all three of us at his name,but soon we have realised that he is friendly to us like anything and we spend time like true buddies. No regerts for childhood,we now know him as a better friend,off course...
THANKS FOR ALL....

When closely watch other relationships of siblings, I don’t know why but I somehow visualize the lack of commitment and binding bonds, which is the essential foundation feature in my relationship with both of my sisters (DIDI & ANKU). Not only as kids, even today we scold each other, have bull fights on regular intervals and use satirical  terminology to entice, still nobody minds and if somebody who cares????.. (actually, this is the way to express love n affection w/each other)

I have two phenomenal buddies with different  characteristics at my home, who anytime listen to me and shower their endless suggestions… and the person responsible behind all this is ,of course my parents and their timeless ways of bringing up the kids….

My jovial ANKUR JIJU makes my family complete as well as delighted, I have recently shared my views for him,but still would like to add that his arrival as a family member always reminds of the veracious vibrations all around....

If I count my out of home friends, ILA is probably the first name and the only person till date, like whom I wanted to be, again because of ma, as she was the great admirer of my chum. So, I assumed that I too will grab her intention, if I would be like her…

Since past 15 years of our friendship;-I adore her as a commensurate blend of human qualities,be it her determination, her pious spirits,her staunch decisions and at the same time a golden heart w/lots a care for everybody around her, she is trually charismatic personality…

RUCHI is for sure the only person, who made our friendship(me,Ruchi & Ila) more meaningful by her presence.  We were the most happening trio in class for around 4-5 years and fortunately together since the first day of school till date. Ruchi can be easily remembered for her timeless pranks, her altogether unique accent, colloquial still remarkable and her calligraphy sort of handwriting. Probably nobody in her near vicinity was left to be mimicked by her, teachers, batchmates, family, neighbours and the list goes on…. Be it, our participation in gk quiz/ science model competition or complaint of our Maths teacher for excessive homework, we left no single moment to show UNITY IS STRENGTH… hahahahahaha

Golden days of one’s life.....

My next asset is none another than aka shaitan bachha  NEHA, makes my school time comlete. I met Neha recently after a long span of 10 years, it actually feels great to meet somebody with whom I have shared and spent wonderful time. We were the true partners in all the notorious activities in the class, since she was the class leader and we were in the same house, we used to make full use of authorities provided to us. Be it the very first classroom award functions in class 8^th or to compel the entire class 9^th to have their signatures on paper to make sure our principal the authenticity of the matter, I true to my heart miss her company and would always like her in my surrounding…..

When I talk of my college days, I have not fully enjoyed them , but I still carry few wonderful jewels with me , AKANKSHA the true companion from the very first day of session, so that most people presumed that we were school friends , I believe she might have felt ennui at times whenever library or some trivial lecture room used to be my destination but hat’s off to her patience level  that she has never expressed her disavowal for me, so sweet of you dear!... I admire you for that…, Well the time in Delhi for the final year training and the last time when you came to Ludhiana for your  training ( NIFT summer internship)  we have again shared some beautiful moments together…

RUCHIKA and I share the perfect Manchester chemistry, which probably very few people can understand; hehehehehehe….bubbly, chirpy and veracious personality, who wisely manages her things, takes hard decisions, might feeling grievance at times but never loses that wonderful smile on her face,…. Probably she lets you to forget everything whenever you talk to her.. I predict we have spent splendid time at Sarla, Ghaziabad and got to know each other well, and since past 2 years when we even could not meet, I have closely realized my bonding w/my dear chum…yo man...!!!!!

When I think of something intellectual around me, one luminous name strikes to me immediately i.e. PRITI , honestly at the first stroke she had no good impression upon me but as the time passed I have started visualizing the depth and gravity of her conscience, which obviously keeps her away from the crowd. I feel proud when we have constructive talks on critical issues and we share aspiring ideas, sometimes emotional as well…. In the nutshell, I wish her luck for her future endevours …

The genuine addendum to above names are beautifully complimented by my Ludhiana arrival and the beautiful people I met here..

To start with the person , with whom I share the closest bonding and she keeps on explaining that togetherness of ours to every second person she meets, is none other than SUMITA MAM; expressive yet  silent, loquacious yet calm, caring yet aggressive; she eventually carries all these well and possesses a phenomenal place in my life, We never thought to be so closed to each other but it just happened… She cares for me as her younger sibling and listens to me, as if I am elder to her…  she might have lost physical assets in the recent years but gracefully manages to maintain all the eternal ones.. and one more quality of her is to embarrass anyone at any moment…. Wonderful you are….!!!

Now, the person with whom I officially started the term like counselling ,which eventually helped me too to think in a broader manner…. RENU MAM, Thanks for being so obedient and listening to whatever bullshit I talk. She is possessive and seeks attention at many times, probably this childish behavior of her makes me crazy for her. She is caring and shows it aggressively at times…again that gesture is patented by her… which nobody can dare to grab. The sweetest part of her lies in her suggestions, whenever she suggests she reminds of the time when she has listened to me ,and agreed to it full heartily.. My final words for you-Just be yourself, you are going to enlighten the world for sure, with your virtues…. I mean it.

Although I have not spent much time with RISHU, but she is a promising human being for sure…

Be it, her amusing accent, her adventurous yet disciplined life style, her magical eyes , her promising thoughts, all make her to be remembered as commensurately petite. I feel delighted even when I think of you, charismatic personality!!……. Always maintain this naïve attitude.

Now, the wonderful person with whom I enjoy die-hardly while flirting, still feel safe like anything, although seems to be wanderer at first stroke, yet  exudes the equanimity of human characteristics, more beautifully than one could even imagine. This is probably one of the reasons I admire LAKHVEER SIR, like anything. Although, he is a cool dude sort of, but still carries aggression strictly when it is needed, otherwise full control on temperament. He is pure, clear and can take stand for anybody who is right, adorable quality of him. I would always want your graceful company.

Now, the latest entry into this entity, probably the only person whom I took around one year to understand, cloying  at first stroke, he used to irritate me with his ever smiling face and quite contemptuous sounding “thank you” after every single sentence.. AMITESH and his audacity is completely splendid. Be it, the proclivity for spirituality or the courage to stand for truth,these qualities certainly place you ahead the crowd.  finally for you, just be yourself,because it pays to be yourself…

So,now you must have experienced the wonderful journey of almost 24 years with these many people,has actually made it even more special and meaningful. Please read my thoughts for you and share whether you agree with me or not….